Broken Hearts

“The pursuit of perfection, then, is the pursuit of sweetness and light. He who works for sweetness and light united, works to make reason and the will of God prevail.”

Matthew Arnold

One of the most common social practice of all times is the personality evaluation of an individual by others on the basis of his/her routine practices. People intend to judge others by their activities without getting into their shoes.

In casual runs, the observer’s focus remains on one’s any failure to confirm customery norms and violation of the norms, ignoring the flexible humanly approach that a heart might suffer from severe deviance due to many reasons. The most unfortunate thing is that, it is a social situation disliked by a lot despite of the factor that it can be treated by easy group effort and hating just add insult to injury of the sufferer.

This has made the awareness of communication therapy more significant in professional terms in order to make majority apprehend the shortcomings of a devient personality. Acceptance by a lot can play an important role in healing of such commonly ignored disorders for tolarance and patience of general is excessively important for implication of therapy.

The intensity of the patient vary according to the cause and time of existence. For instance dissatisfaction of basic needs urges one towards lust and maladjustment. Such an individual possess material abnormally and opt for limitless adventure including drugs to crime. Whereas unbalanced effection of parents causes worse form of devience specially in children; consequently reacting extreme to normal situations. They become over sensitive and get easily distracted.

Broken parents children lack trust and rely least on others because of being self centered in fear. They are more resistent to socialization whereas abused children may turn out to be abusers in their adulthood. Such psyches develop fear of acceptence, self-pity or torturing attitudes and in extreme cases can be very dangerous.

Lacking psychological awareness and training realted to personality building and traits in public dealing make majority misconstrue the abnormal reactions and response spiteful. This add fuel to the fire and make the innocent sufferer insecure enough to fail to socialize in community.  Rather then supporting, their frustration is led down by their homes, neighbours, friends and at professional congregations.

Another unnoticed factor is neurosis, developed in individuals who get through complicated cultural differences. This category doesn’t have strong potential of decision making due to distracted and confused mentality. They are culturally devided souls that are unable to stand in a single lifestyle. A Muslim and non-Muslim parent couple can devaste a personality if fails to set-up proper environemt at home.

This is begotten of an unorganised family structure and prospers only poor attainment of education or learning skills. Such individuals might be talented but either are short of expression or fail to come up on expectations.

Development is  game of attitude and one with wrong priorities can never change. In te same way, a subtle mind develops unethical or insane approach towards others due to absence of beliefs, morals and practices. This make the system unpleasent and damages flexibility of positive upgradation. Vicious cycle of poverty and uncontrollable pollution are the outcomes of such phenomenas.

Therefore, before stamping a quick judgement of an individual, a supportive and constructive attitude can help to explore a clearer vision of the entity. It evolves intellect of a better evaluator of a mind. Getting to know the colours of one’s life not only make the relation or communication more beautiful and stronger but also grows love. Healings hearts is better then breaking hearts.