Commanding the Sexual Appetites

The sweet sixteenth year of her life became target of flirting Farhan Durrani’s physical lust. She lost her virginity to him every second day until she become known to the reality. Shattered with pain and despair, when she sat for the last time in his car, he kissed her cheek and hugged her as tight as possible, trying to console her and bring back to his net. But it was too late, for it was the first time his touch was as meaningless to her as could be to a stone.

It is an unfortunate element that majority of the world population commonly claim sex as a natural appetite to a human body and is intangible. There is a strong set of mind that believes that being resistive to sexual appealing is abnormality and should be treated wisely. This in contrast to customary perceptions is studied very deeply by the psychiatrists too. Though, understanding the control of sexual feelings is easier than anything potential to human psyche.

Sex is as mechanical as any machine. Despite of the fact, that human structure itself is considered as one of the most complex example of a machine; sex is portrayed as an uncontrollable and important need of the body. Gulfing sexual urges is assimilated in words like frustration, depression, abnormality etc. instead of being associated as one of the basic abilities a mind can perform while performing other body tasks.

Having sex, no matter in what manner is conventional while not having it is assumed as a disorder seems most mysterious to all humanly comprehensions. If it really is that important then why….

·       Human being not only do sex to humans but the sickness exceeds to anything?

·       Not everybody is just fucking all the time?

·       Do individuals opt for being homos or tend towards self-satisfied procedures of sexual pleasures?

·        Would one stick to a single partner for potential physical attachment and other keep on having sex with a new partner each time?

·       Do a loving partner stop attracting and arousing one after being hated due to any certain reasons?

·       Isn't sex a very private matter and collides to sexual demands regarding acceptance of partners?

·       Do we study come sexual orientations or procedures as unethical, abnormal or inhumane?

Sex is all about making a decision on having the pleasure or not to have. It’s as mathematical as anything calculable. When we think we have to let go or we consent to let go, sex proceeds. It doesn't require any effort to go with the flow no matter how one feels it through. But if the mind has a “no” to the scent of closing to feeling sexual horns, it is impossible to make a move individually or collectively among two or more.

People doesn't have low or high libido, they only have different capabilities to control their appetite. Those who know and understand their power to do so enjoys their desires the most whenever they feel like doing so for it is not formidable to anything anymore. The more one gets the magic to perform this ability, the more he or she gravitates other minds upon sex. Being enslaved to sexual appetite is not normal, having strong hold on it is the actual normality.