Bullying a known alien

“Don’t you try to prove yourself that innocent, huh!” was the response I get from my question, “what do you want from me?”

Aging is commonly taken as most perfect, mature enough to be deprived of innocence, well trained and very much relevant to everything around. That is why, people during their communication expect the opponent to get everything expression anyways despite of any noise pollution in the process or distraction in the design of message. There is no room for innocence, ignorance, indifference and impartiality.

If not technical, but most common aspects must be known and experienced to the aging otherwise, either you are lying or you are not normal making you an alien in your existing environment. And the survival as such an individual is possible only if one is silent or non-communicative. For, expression would raise doubts, questions and ultimately objections on being unique.

Now here is the point when we focus on the communication theories that describes the social psychology of the masses who chose to be distinctive from the rest; through their developmental patterns. It can clearly be taken as an individual’s impact study in uses and gratification though plainly specifying cognitive dissonance satisfied by opting alienation from the casual society. This however, is divergent but not quite obsolete to be rejected.

There is a strong college of thought that believes in non-delayed transparent response therefore, doesn’t entertain diplomacy in their conversations. This, sometimes is not appreciated, especially when turns out to be a rejection to any definite habitual ritual or routine. Although, it can simply be the result of one’s discrete likeness or hatred for a practice adopted by masses. For example, if a person go against the trending of getting exposed to sexuality, even at personal level, or disown use of technology, detain the idea of profiting market or so, he or she is badly criticized as a psychopath, alien or soft headed.

Understanding and accepting customary is made mandatory with aging. The freedom of gratifying through self-amusing is allowed only when it is identical to the typical norms. A single faces festivity pressure on going against the tides of sociality. This originates cognitive dissonance and goes extremes when objected strictly in an ordinary view. The more the distinctive mind is bullied, more the retaliation comes and it cannot always be positive to be tolerated.

This makes it extremely important to obtain that individual’s exertions related to cognitive dissonance must not be associated to aging instead uses and gratification. It is easier to organize and manage the social integrity by handling such obvious brooders and trend orienteers. And an unlike single in a group can be utilized according to its specific potential with acknowledgement in order to sustain the chain of development.

Presumptions on individual’s responses, contradictory rebuffing or bullying itself is obnoxious and restrain one from being into mainstream. It unconsciously, by the time disbar the person from normality due to consistent psychological practice and may produce disorders. Apart, it upsets the communication cycle and forwards misconstrued input that bring failure. This is why better communication skills are perceived as milestone in successful achievement of careers and tasks all around the world.

Rejection no matter what the reason may be, is disastrous and when it comes to socializing, the greater the pressure so the grandeur reaction. Whereas, gratification is the essence of mental satisfaction so when hindered or oppressed, is a challenged obsession at stake of anything. And with age, disregarding everything strengthens the determination for human nature is rebellious. It is unpredictable in its capacity to pose itself as a flotsam.